(Chad gets connected and is chatting with some other Elders
in Spanish.)
Chad- Hi! How’s it
going?
Mom- Hi!! Good, we just had Christmas and we’ve just been
waiting here for your call. I loved
hearing you talk Spanish.
Ch- today we had a big Christmas activity, I’ve been talking
with a lot of English elders so I have to switch back and forth. Hi everyone!
Hi Lexi, you’re so big now.
Mom- You opened the book right? (A book that had family
holding up a scripture of the Christmas story in Luke.)
Chad- That was awesome, Thank you. I was just telling my companion (crying)… I
was just telling my companion how much I missed reading in Luke with Dad when I
was younger. Then I opened that book and
it was perfect. I was just telling him
how much I’d miss that this year and I got the book and it was really
cool.
Mom- Oh awesome!
Ch- I loved the small little white board. That is a great idea. I’ve seen others use that.
Mom- that was Tyler’s idea.
He gave me a lot of ideas.. different colored pens, stickys, the white
board.
Chad- It’s awesome.
It’s something I’ll actually use.
Thank you!
Chad- I’m using a tablet.
Can you see me?
Mom- Yes, great. Did
you like the star wars socks?
Chad- Yes, loved it. My companion loves them! They
are “p-day socks”. :)
Mom- What did you do the last few days to celebrate?
Ch- Christmas is like new years here! It can get a bit dangerous bc people drink a
lot. So we had to enter home
earlier. I’m here in Apopa. In the day time we went to San Salvador and
went with all the missionaries and just played games with all of the
missionaries. I’ve made a lot of friends
in the mission now so it’s fun to see them.
Mom- Did you get all of your birthday letters?
Ch- I think I’m still missing two. But, I understand what it was supposed to
say. Thank you.
Mom- How are all of your clothes doing?
Ch- They are good. My
shirts are yellow. I don’t wear long
sleeve very much right now so my long sleeve shirt I’m wearing now is still
white. It’s normal to have yellow-ish
shirts here so I’m good. Next time I go
to the temple I’ll buy some more garments.
Mom- did you get the money from G Sheldon?
Ch- Yes. I haven’t
used it, but it’s in my account.
Mom- What’s your favorite thing to eat there?
Ch- I don’t know how much I’ve told you. But, my favorite thing is beans with cream
and fried plantains, like baked bananas.
Fried plantains with French bread.
Here you eat with your hands.
It’s uncommon to have a fork.
I’ve gotten really comfortable with just eating beans and cream with
your hands.
Mom- What is the cream?
Just like a normal cream?
Ch- Yeah, just like straight cream. They dump it on everything (bread,
beans). Everything. It’s really good.
Mom- Do they have street vendors?
Ch- It’s a bit like parasite roulette... haha. The papusas are good, but we can’t really eat
all of it.
Lexi- When have you been the happiest?
Ch- Well, I’m pretty happy right now! When we have people to teach and they receive
us and are progressing, I’m pretty happy with that.
Dad- Kai wants to say hi.
He has a superman shirt on.
Kai- (Kai waves.)
Mom- What’s your favorite p-day activity?
Ch- Soccer is fun with the other elders. In Apopa we don’t do a whole lot on
p-days. It can be dangerous to go out,
so usually we stay home. I like to write
and rest.
Bean- What is your favorite smell in your area right now?
Ch- Lol. This country
does not smell good. It’s beautiful, but
the lakes, gutters are trashed. There’s
a lot of interesting smells. A lot of
people don’t bathe very well. Good
smells? There aren’t many.
Mom- are there good fruits?
Ch- I don’t try the exotic fruits very much because they are
expensive but every week I buy apples.
Kevin- Here’s Navy.
She’s asleep.
Chad- Sorry it’s late.
What time is it there? It looks
light there.
Mom- We are only an hour later. Do you do a lot of service in your area?
Ch- It depends. Maybe
we should do more service. We always ask
what we can do in San Miguel. They say
to throw water in the sidewalk. They say
it cools it down a lot. It sounds weird
but that’s what they always like us to do.
Mom- where do you live now?
Ch- It’s pretty nice.
When the other elders come, they say it’s pretty cool. The other half is not finished and trashed,
but our half is nice. It’s finished.
Mom- How is the area?
Ch- it’s pretty hard to be honest. The members are mostly inactive. The members we do know will feed us
usually.
Mom- you can always have more money.
Ch- I’m okay. I’ve
been pretty good about budgeting my money.
Mom- When was the last time you washed your sheets?
Ch- No answer.. haha.
You have to understand. I wash my
clothes by hand. So if I wash my sheets
then I sleep without sheets for a week.
Mom- Do you feel safe?
Ch- It’s best if I don’t answer that... I’ll tell you most of them after my
mission. I’m very protected here by the
Lord and I feel it every day. But there
are a lot of things I’m not going to tell you til after. I live in a dangerous country and see a lot
of things that I don’t ever want to see.
I’ll have a lot of stories to tell one day. I’ve been and seen places that I don’t want to see
again. But, I’m okay. I feel protected here as a missionary
completely. I realize the danger I am in
at times, but I also can tell you that I am protected.
Kevin- How have your responsibilities and the way you teach different
now as a DL?
Ch- I feel some more stress.
At a recent zone meeting, my name just dropped down and I had no
idea. They were showing how everything had
changed (elders moved places and my area shrunk), but I’m learning to deal with
it. I’m more conscious of what I’m
doing. People watch and see what I’m
doing and follow my example, so I watch what I do carefully.
Mom- How many are in your district?
Ch- They just took out 2, so just 4 right now. But, they will bring back 2 soon.
Mom- What do you like about your companion?
Ch- He’s just barely came out. He’s really good. He was a little weird at first. Haha. He’s really spontaneous and energetic (he had
a youtube channel before the mission, so he’s that kind of person). I don’t
like to remind people about obedience stuff, but sometimes I have to with
little stuff as he is a new missionary.
I get along really great with him.
Mom- When does your mission pres leave?
Ch- He’ll leave 8 months after me which is really cool that
he’ll be here the whole time I am here.
He helps me a lot. I have a great
testimony of him and the spirit has testified to me about the things he’s
taught more than any other. One thing I’ve
really realized here is the importance of the Sabbath day. I know I’m in the mission mode, but I’ve made
the commitment to not watch football on Sundays after my mission. An elder said to me once: The Sabbath day is
to prepare us for the Celestial Kingdom.
We shouldn’t do anything on the Sabbath that we wouldn’t do there.
Mom- They’ve really been focusing on that here too.
Ch- Here in central America it’s been one thing that a lot
of people don’t do. It’s really
hard. I’ve had to say something to a bishop
about it before and he said “show me where in the scriptures it says
that”. I just walked away.
Ch- It’s pretty dangerous here. Sometimes they don’t want to leave their
neighborhoods to go to church.
Mom- I ran into Trent the other day. It was really fun to see him
Ch- I just heard from him a few weeks ago. It's always great to hear from friends!
Mom- Do you have any questions for us?
Ch- I can’t think.
Mom- Do you get to see the country?
Ch- Here its a bit more dangerous to go out into the
country. Since I’ve been here I haven’t
really gone out because of the situation in the country. Not as much as I would have liked.
Ch- There’s a lot of hills.
I’ve gotten stronger because we walk all over. I used to get really sore and my feet would
hurt. But I’ve gotten used to it. I feel like my calves are really strong. haha
Ch- No, I haven’t worn sunscreen in months. Send me some sunscreen. It’s really expensive here for a tiny bottle. Send me some if you can.
Ch- For Vitamins I just want something that doesn’t have
anything over 100%
Mom- what’s the music like in your ward?
Ch- in this ward that I’m in… It’s actually a (can’t think
of English word.. branch) basically. No
piano. When people sing it sounds like
they are screeching.. chalkboards. I
miss good singing. There are no CD’s to
play either. They just kind of sing. Sometimes the investigators will say “it’s so
beautiful”. I’m like “what are you
listening to? Because that’s not what I heard.”
But, they don’t get to hear singing much, so they love it.
Mom- Do you speak in church a lot?
Ch- I’ve gotten really good at just saying what I know. As I’m walking up, I ask Bishop “what’s the
topic today?” He says “repentance” so I say Okay! There’s about 60 people, and about 40 there
and 20 less actives.
Mom- What do most people do for work in your area?
Ch- Uh.. construction.
Most people go into San Salvador.
Mom- How far are you?
Ch- To the temple it’s about 40 minutes. We take 2 buses to San Salvador. We should be due pretty soon for the
temple. We haven’t been since being
here.
Tyler- Do you meet in a church building?
Ch- There was a building they built about 7-8 years ago.
Mom- Why’d they close it?
Ch- I’ve heard rumors of disobedient missionaries, but also some
violent areas, and it just wasn’t progressing.
Tyler- Is there a field in the back of the church to play
soccer?
Ch- There is a small one there. They are fun to play on.
Mom- Anything else you’d like me to send you? Any food you’re really missing?
Ch- Ah, I miss good food, but no I’m pretty good here.
Mom- I wanted to send Soubie Salsa, but it was fresh… not
pressurized.
Ch- I haven’t had tortilla chips since I’ve been here.
Jess- what is your focus for your area?
Ch- Focusing on friends of member families, member
references, Less activities.
Mom- What’s the weather like? Does it stay about the same?
Ch- It stays about the same.
The nights are a bit cooler. I
sleep with a sheet. But, it’s still
really warm. Today I was sweating a
lot.
Mom- ID, UT have so much snow right now. We are nice here. 60’s and sunny.
Ch- I miss that weather.
It’s so hot here.
Kevin- I know you’re in Apopa. There’s a lot of little tiny communities.
Ch- I’m technically not in Apopa. In a bus it’s about 5 minutes. Go to lds.org, look for vilamariana (?)
ward.
Kevin- Are the buses super rickety?
Ch- sometimes they don’t stop. You just have to grab on to the bars. You throw your money in and yell. They slow down just enough for you to jump
off. Especially during work hours. Yeah, the buses are fun. Some elders say the buses here drive faster
than other areas. They compete and try
to beat each other around corners. It
makes it pretty crazy.
Mom- Are you feeling used to the area?
Ch- I feel pretty comfortable. It feels pretty comfortable. I was telling my companion that it feels like
Christmas is my half way. On the board
in the mission president’s room my return date is the 15th of February. Something with the latinos schedule (they are
changing some of the elders to only 3 weeks in the MTC) may shift all of the
dates. That’s far away, so I’ll keep you
posted. That’s so far away.
Mom- do you have some companions that you want to room with?
Ch- Yeah, there’s a couple that I’ve gotten to know. I’ve met a lot of cool guys and definitely be
friends with them.
Rimo- Hey!
Ch- How’s it going?
How’s the studies?
Rimo- Good. It’s
getting hard to keep going. I’ve been
doing it so much.
Ch- that’s awesome.
I’m not looking forward to doing that.
I’ve already forgotten everything.
Jessie- Do you keep a journal?
Ch- Not really. With
all of the responsibilities it’s been hard.
I am usually done around 10:30 and then just go to bed.
Mom- Did you get a lot of letters and emails for your
birthday?
Ch- Yes. I got a lot
of first time writers since they have written for my birthday.
Kevin- Keep tokens from restaurants and etc. as
memories.
Mom- what time do you get up?
Ch- 6:30.
Ch- Sorry I don’t really send pictures as much as I’d
like. I don’t take my camera outside
anymore because I’ve had people go through my bag.
Rimo- Have your plans for life after the mission changed
since the mission?
Ch- My view on the world has changed so much. I still want to do engineering. Maybe that will change, I don’t know. I don’t know what they will change to, but my
views have changed.
Mom- Who has been cutting my hair?
Ch- Just anybody I can find. Actually right now the Bishop’s
wife cuts it. They just start going at
it usually. They always try to leave it
long on top bc that is the style. But, I
always say ‘mas, mas, mas!” They cut it off the sides and say you’re good. They don’t really blend it. Or they want to just buzz the whole
thing.
Ch- The testimonies have all been really cool for the 25
days of Christmas. Thank you for sending
them. I’ve been trying to respond to
people and write them back.
Mom- How are your shoes?
Is it something you can get there? Did you get new running shoes?
Ch- My shoes are fine.
They are wearing thin on the sides a bit. I will get some here at some point..
Jessie- are you happy?
Ch- It’s hard, I’ll be honest. Some days are harder than others. I’m what they call “baggie”, just really home
centered. We can’t knock on doors. It’s too dangerous. We just shout usually and sometimes they come
out. We can’t knock unless we have a
member with us or if we are looking for someone specifically.
Kevin- what’s your fav chapter of PMG?
Ch- We focused a lot on studies. Having good studies. I’ve been studying a lot in Chapter 2. Christ-like attributes.
Jessie- what’s a missionary challenge you have for us? We’ll report on Mother’s Day.
Ch- If you tell yourself no one is there to share the gospel
to or that you are not the person to do it, you’re lying to yourself. In Alma it says the angels are preparing the
way for others to hear the gospel. Your
challenge is to bring someone to a church meeting. Then tell the missionaries about them.
Ch- I have to start saying good bye now.
Mom- Okay. That’s the
hard one. Mother’s Day isn’t so far
away.
Chad- Thank you for your prayers. I feel them.
It helps a lot.
Ch- Anneke, I just want you to know that I don’t always have
time to write you back. But, I really
appreciate it. I thank you a lot. I always read your emails.
Anneke- No worries! I
love the letters to families.
Everyone- Bye!! We
love you.
Mom- Alright. You are
doing a great job.
Chad- It’s really hard mom.
I miss you guys a lot.
Mom- You are doing a great job. We miss you but you are doing so great. We pray for you a lot.
Chad- Sometimes I
feel like I’m not making a great difference, but I try really hard.
Mom- You are.
Especially here too. We are so
proud of you.
Chad- Love you Mom! I
really am happy, but I really do miss you guys.
It really is hard sometimes.
Mom- Hang in there.
You are doing great.
Chad- okay. I really
am safe mom.
Mom- Love you.
Chad- Love you too!!
Chad was pretty emotional, which made it emotional for all
of us. He sounded strong and not at all
discouraged, but he mentioned often that it was very hard. We know that he has been protected and blessed every day serving as a missionary. It was so great to hear from him. He expresses wanting to do his very best and we know that he is giving his all to the Lord serving in El Salvador.